Walking Report Cards

My kids’ school had their final Parent-Teacher Conferences of the year last night. It’s wild to think that we are getting so close to the end of the school year! Last night’s conferences were different from the others we’ve attended this year. Typically, we sign up for a time slot to sit down and talk with each teacher for 10-15 minutes. Those are great, and I love hearing about the progress my children are making and talking with their teachers. 

Last night, however, they did what is called a “Walking Report Card” where the kids were in charge of the night. The teacher provided a set of instructions, then, using a checklist provided by the teacher, the students were expected to take over from there. Each teacher had set up four or five different stations, which we rotated through at our own pace and in the order we chose. Each station focused on a different area of study: science, math, reading, writing, and/or social studies. 

Rather than the teacher going over some of our kids’ work, our kids got the chance to show us what they have been learning about. We were able to see their progress in action! It was such a cool opportunity for the kids to take control of the conference. They felt so empowered and important while they took us through the rotations. Additionally, they took so much pride and ownership in their work as they showed us what they could do. 

It was a nice break for the teachers, too, since they could casually roam the room and answer any questions parents had for them rather than sit at their desk all night. They still had to prepare for the night by collecting work samples to send home with parents, as well as to set up the stations, but the conferences themselves were much more relaxed. 

The stations looked different for each grade, but they all had the same goal: to let the students show what they know. A math station might ask students to complete a couple of equations, draw out an array for a multiplication problem, use a candy bracelet to show their knowledge of fractions, or complete a word problem. Science stations could include activities like demonstrating how magnets work, drawing how a sound wave travels between two objects, labeling the parts of a plant, and so forth. For a reading station, teachers might have students read a passage then summarize what they read, do a timed reading to see how many words they could read in a minute, or reading a short story they had written. For writing, my third grader showed us how he could neatly write a sentence in cursive. My fourth grader read me a passage he had written about the Boston Tea Party. My kindergartener got to show us how he can write the correct word to match a picture. 

There were so many different ways for students to demonstrate their learning, and it was so neat to see first hand what my kids are learning about and doing at school. They did take a little longer than traditional conferences, but the outcome was worth the extra time, and the pride each student felt during and after was priceless!

Does your school do walking report cards?

Are Parent Teacher Conferences Even Worth It?

Last week we attended parent teacher conferences for my four oldest kids. Between the time spent meeting with teachers and the time spent waiting to meet with teachers, we were at the school for almost two hours. It was a long night. I started to wonder if it was even worth our time and the teachers’ time when everything that was said probably could have just been said in an email. But then as I sat and thought for a minute, I remembered that there really is great value in taking the time to go into the school and meet with the teachers face to face. 

In person meetings open the door to establishing a relationship with the teachers. It’s important to build rapport with the people in your children’s lives. And from a teacher’s perspective, it’s really nice to be able to see the parents and families of your students, as it can give you insight into the student’s family life and their situation. 

There is also something to be said for actually being in the classroom where your child learns. My kids love to show me where they sit, fun things they love about their classroom, and where their cubbies and other things are in the room, and I love being able to see all of that. I remember nights when even my “too cool” junior high students would be so excited to show their parents where they sat in my room. Students, parents, and teachers alike can enjoy being in the classroom together.

While face to face meetings and being in the classroom are both solid reasons to spend time at parent teacher conferences, I think the most important reason is for students to hear the good things that are being celebrated. As a teacher, celebrating and praising students was one of my favorite things to do. Everyone loves to hear they are doing a good job. I loved getting to tell parents about the amazing things their child was doing, especially if the student was right there with us. Nothing can replace the pride and joy that would come across the student’s face as they heard good things being said about them. As a parent, it’s such a sweet moment seeing my child’s face light up when their teacher praises them. 

So while parent teacher conference nights are long nights, the time is worth it. In order for there to be a positive relationship between parents and teachers, it’s crucial to have good communication, and conferences are such a good way to accomplish this. By taking time out of your busy life to meet with teachers, it shows your child (and their teacher) that you are invested in their education and progress. Is it possible to be invested without attending conferences? Absolutely. But conferences provide a unique opportunity for students, parents, and teachers to all come together to celebrate (and correct if necessary) the things that are happening in the classroom.