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What I Wish I Would Have Known

It’s graduation season! It’s a bittersweet milestone, but is definitely one to be celebrated. I remember my graduation day, and remember feeling so anxious but excited. I had my whole life planned out, and I was just sure it was going to go exactly how I wanted it to: go to college with my best friend, find a good guy and get married by 23, graduate as a nurse, have some kids, and so on. Boy was I in for a surprise when my plans didn’t follow that timeline, nor did most of my plans actually happen. I went to a different college than my friend, switched majors from nursing to elementary education, back to nursing, then eventually got my degree in secondary education. I didn’t get married until I was 30, and the kids came soon after that. As I think back and reflect on how the last 23 years of my live have gone, I’m glad my original plans didn’t follow my timeline. I would have missed out on so many things that were crucial to me becoming who I am today. But man, sometimes I wish I could go back and tell my naive 18 year old self a thing or to to give her some advice and encouragement about the future.

I figured other people might feel the same way, and might have something to say to their 18 year old selves. I asked several people what they would tell themselves, if they knew then what they know now. The answers ranged from the silly and light hearted to the serious and profound. So seniors, this one’s for you– a little advice from people who have been there, done that, and want to pass on some words of wisdom!

  • Don’t rush growing up. You will never have it all figured out.
  • Trust your gut.
  • Travel more, work hard, don’t spend more than you earn, save, believe, and invest in yourself.
  • Every life event and breakup led me to my husband and life I have today, and I wouldn’t change that.
  • At 18, I didn’t know it would take me 10 more years to get married. Don’t worry about that.
  • Don’t open a credit card— save for what you want/need.
  • Love YOUR life. Don’t worry about what others say or do. Let them live the life they want. You choose you!
  • It’s okay to not know what you want to major in. It’s okay to switch majors— college is an investment. Make sure you are getting out of it what you want.
  • Not all friendships will last past graduation. That’s ok. There’s new friends out there.
  • You are worth it. You matter.
  • If college isn’t your thing, it’s ok. It doesn’t have to be. 
  • Spend time with those you love.
  • Never miss a chance to say thank you or I love you.
  • Take the risk— if it works out, awesome! If not, you learned from it and are better for it.
  • Make the effort to study and challenge yourself.
  • Advice given by others is second, learn to hear your own voice first and loudest.
  • It’s worth hanging around to see how the story ends.
  • The smart thing to do and the right thing to do are very rarely the same thing to do. But it never changes what the right thing to do is. Choose what is right. Always.
  • Take more pictures.
  • Always trust your instincts.
  • Apply for all the things! Enjoy everything!
  • Feeling dread all the time isn’t normal— it’s ok to get help if you need it.
  • Keep doing what makes yourself proud.
  • You’ll have so much more fun and peace if you don’t stress about dating. Don’t rush it!
  • Give yourself some grace.
  • You don’t have to have it all figured out at 18. The best is yet to come!
  • It’s ok to not know what you want.
  • Work on yourself— make yourself the kind of person you want to be.
  • Don’t be afraid. Go for it. If you fail, then try something else.
  • Try to save money.
  • Be smart with money.
  • Get the degree. Be able to support yourself.
  • If your friends are dragging you down, ditch them.
  • Don’t settle for less!
  • Be flexible— sometimes things don’t go the way you hoped they would, and you have to adapt and adjust. 
  • Look for the good in people.
  • Look for the good in every day. 
  • Be patient and the right partner will come when you are doing what you need to be doing.
  • Focus on figuring out what you want to do and work towards that goal.
  • Be gentle on yourself. Celebrate your wins, no matter how small.
  • You are doing amazing things.
  • You can do hard things.
  • Everyone you come across is fighting some kind of battle you know nothing about. Be kind.
  • Be patient with yourself and with others. We’re all doing the best we can.

Take a minute and reflect on your graduation day– what would you tell yourself?

Congratulations to the class of 2025! You did it!

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Drumroll, Please! 2025 Scholarship Winners

The winners of our HGU Build A Better Future Scholarship have been chosen! There were so many amazing projects submitted. I was amazed by the dedication, time, and passion that went into each project. It was so hard to choose the top five; I spent a couple of weeks going through each application, making notes, going back through applications, and working with our HGU team to narrow it down. It was tough, but we finally settled on our decisions.

And the winners are…

Ryleigh Brenamen-Trumbull

Project: ALS Awareness Campaign

Ryleigh is passionate about ALS research and care. She is seeking to provide a better experience for patients in the throes of ALS diagnosis and treatment. Through her dedication and time, she has hosted several fundraising events that have raised over $29,000. The money has been donated directly to Hoenselaar Clinical Trial Program in Detroit, Michigan. She says, “In my community, the impact of ALS became deeply personal when three individuals, including my grandmother, were diagnosed with the disease. This experience highlighted a significant issue being the lack of research and funding dedicated to ALS. Despite the devastating nature of the disease, which progressively affects mobility, speech and breathing, ALS remains underfunded and receives limited attention compared to other diseases. The lack of resources for ALS research is a critical concern. While families like mine are left to cope with the emotional and physical toll of the disease, there is insufficient investment in scientific research and treatment development. The current pace of progress is slow and the options available for those affected by ALS are limited. It is clear that more funding and support are needed to improve the lives of those diagnosed with ALS. Increased awareness and investment in research are essential to accelerate the discovery of effective treatments and ultimately a cure. Advocating for more resources is vital to ensuring that individuals and families affected by ALS have access to better care and hope for the future.”

Maria Avila-Silva

Project: Pathfinders

Being an immigrant herself, Maria knows how difficult it can be to find the appropriate resources for accessing higher education. Her project aims to help immigrant students like herself build confidence and access to the resources needed for post-high school education. She says, “Growing up in my community, I’ve seen so many talented immigrant students held back by obstacles like self-doubt, lack of resources, and the belief that higher education is out of reach. I’ve watched friends with incredible potential question if they’re “good enough” or wonder how they could afford college, and it breaks my heart.

As someone who came to the United States from Venezuela at the age of nine, I understand these struggles firsthand. I’ve been in their shoes, feeling like an outsider and unsure of where to turn for help. That’s why I’m passionate about my work with Pathfinders, where I help immigrant students find their path to higher education. Through this program, I’ve shown students that college is not just a distant dream, but an achievable goal. Whether it’s guiding them through applications, offering mentorship, or reminding them that their passion matters. I’m driven to help students overcome the barriers that hold them back and empower them to believe in themselves and their futures. Every student deserves the chance to believe in themselves, and I’m committed to making that happen.”

Eva McIver-Jenkins and Ava Gonnella

Project: Laps for Philly

Eva and Ava knew more could be done for underprivileged kids who wanted to learn more about swimming. Together, they teamed up to create an amazing organization that provides swimming lessons and gear for kids who need it. Eva wrote, “I grew up on the pool deck, surrounded by the sharp scent of chlorine and the joy of teammates cheering each other on. My first swim team, based in West Philadelphia, was small, spirited, and predominantly Black—one of the few in the city where I felt I truly belonged. But as I moved to more competitive teams, I began to notice how rare that space was. Often, I was the only Black swimmer at the meet. It made me ask: Why aren’t there more kids who look like me in the water?

The answer wasn’t talent—it was access.

In response, I co-founded Laps for Philly, a grassroots initiative to bring aquatics to underserved communities. We fund swim lessons, lifeguard certifications, and gear, and partner with schools and centers to host workshops that reframe swimming as more than just a sport. Swimming is a life-saving skill, a source of joy and recreation, and for many—like me—a pathway to scholarships and academic opportunity.

Our mission is simple: go to where the people are—not just physically, but with understanding and respect. Through Laps for Philly, I’ve seen kids fall in love with swimming and realize the water has always been theirs, too.”

Fowwaz Moeen

Project: Food for Friends

Fowwaz became aware of the problem of food insecurity, and sought to do something about it. Using resources available to him, as well as securing additional funding, he was able to build several garden beds and restore a damaged greenhouse on his school’s campus. The garden beds are maintained by fellow students, and the crops grown and harvested are donated to local food pantries. Fowwaz wrote, “When I first walked into room C311 as a shy freshman, I never imagined the UNICEF club would define my high school experience. As I progressed from member to President, I expected my impact would be contained to UNICEF. However, the defining moment of my leadership came during the 2022 monsoon floods in Pakistan, which left 1/3 of children with malnutrition. I launched an urgent campaign to raise awareness and funds. Yet I didn’t have to look past Houston to see food insecurity firsthand.

In Houston, nearly 30% of low-income residents live in food deserts (areas where access to fresh, affordable food is scarce). In one of the most multi-cultural cities of the country, this issue impacts a diverse community—over 644,710 people in my home county of Harris alone. It affects the most vulnerable members of our community, impacting their health, well-being, and—for the 1 in 4 children in Houston who are food insecure—even their education.

Access to fresh and healthy produce is a basic human right, and by addressing food insecurity, I realized I could bridge socio-economic divides in my city. That’s when the idea for Food for Friends was born.”

Japteg Singh-Bamrah

Our top winner this year was Japteg Sing-Bamrah. In addition to the scholarship award, Japteg will also receive an additional $5,000 to continue work on his project.

Project: Solar Mech Machine

Japteg saw a need, and sought to make it better. In an effort to make farming more efficient and sustainable, Japteg designed, created, and implemented an innovative renewable energy solution. He wrote, “India, being an agrarian country, faces two major challenges in rural development: electricity availability and post-harvest losses. In many areas of my community in Punjab, over 40% of post-harvest produce is lost due to inadequate electricity, lack of dryers, and insufficient cold storage facilities. These losses lead to severe financial setbacks for farmers, contributing significantly to the growing number of farmer suicides.

There is an urgent need to adopt renewable energy solutions that can operate in standalone, hybrid, or combined heat and power (CHP) modes. However, without adequate government support, such technologies remain unaffordable for most farmers. After conducting cost and feasibility analyses—considering renewable sources, economic viability, and mean sunshine hours—I discovered the potential of a Stirling cycle-based CHP system to convert external heat into mechanical power.

Following my selection at the Jigyasa Hackathon, I received mentorship at CSIR-IIIM Jammu. Through extensive design analysis, load calculations, and CAD modeling, we developed a functional prototype—SolarMech—a solar CHP system using air pressure as the working fluid. This innovation presents a promising, sustainable solution to the dual challenges of power scarcity and post-harvest losses in rural India.”

Congratulations to this year’s winners. Stay tuned for coming posts spotlighting each of our winners, with more details about their projects!

To learn more about our scholarship and what was required of these amazing winners, click here.

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Tips For Graduating College Students

College graduation has recently come for many students and is still in anticipation of other seniors with graduation in the spring. This time of life can come with a mixture of emotions- excitement that college lectures are a thing of the past, worries for future plans, or fear of the unknown. I have asked trusted friends, family, and colleagues their best advice for graduating college students and have come up with this collective list of important things to remember during this big change in your life. 

  1. Stop stressing about a job. The most typical response by far was to stop stressing about jobs and career paths after graduation. There are a vast amount of options each major in school can lead you. Jobs will open up and work out, while others that seem perfect may slip through your fingertips. Important things to remember while job searching after graduation:
  2. The perfect job rarely exists. Which is okay because it leads to my next point.
  3. You most likely will not be in this job for a lifetime. Gone are the days where you choose a career path and stick with the same occupation until retirement. Typically, people spend 3-5 years in the same job before getting promoted or finding a new job. If you don’t find the perfect job, it’s okay because it will likely change. 
  4. Finding an entry-level job right after graduation doesn’t always happen, and that’s okay. Keep searching and putting in the effort, don’t let the pressure of a graduation date stress you out about a job. You’re young, take time to explore, travel, or even find experience in your field to land a great job later in life. 
  5. You can choose to be passionate about whatever job you end up in. Take it from my husband, who grew up on a farm surrounded by cows, horses, and corn. He graduated with a degree in Business Administration and landed his first job managing a warehouse in a rental company for wedding supplies. If a farm boy from Utah can have a full conversation about chivari chairs and 90” round ivory tablecloths one day and then be sad the next day when he says goodbye to the company while he changes his career back to his roots in an agriculture-based company, anyone can be passionate about anything. 
  6. The years went faster than you thought they would. College graduation is already here? How did four (or three, or five) years go by so fast? They really do happen in a blink of an eye. 

Studying a subject that brings excitement into your life at a university can be so rewarding. You’ve spent hours and days in classrooms, taking notes, studying flashcards, cramming for tests, and collaborating with peers. Finally, it’s your day to shine and be recognized by many for the accomplishment you’ve made. If I were to leave one last tip, it would be this: walk at your graduation ceremony. Take the day to wear the cap and gown, show off your school’s tassel, and pose for every picture your family and friends want to take. You just dedicated four years of your life to studying and passing classes, you deserve this day. Congratulations, graduate!