Encouraging Cultural Understanding

Imagine attending school in a place that is foreign to you, or hearing kids in the halls say cruel or incorrect things about your family’s culture. Imagine knowing that your people played an important role in a historical event, only to have their impact brushed over or even completely ignored by your history teacher. Situations like this happen all too often, but as teachers, we can make a change by including instruction about diverse cultures into our curriculum. By using the sixth “C” of the 7 Cs of education, cross-cultural understanding, we can help our students understand different cultures and people. 

Cross-cultural understanding can be taught in many ways. The goal of creating understanding about other cultures is to help students see that everyone has value, and that everyone’s story is important. Including cross-cultural instruction may look different to each content area and from grade to grade, but is equally important across the board. Cross-cultural education might look like any of the following:

  • Culturally Responsible Teaching: use current events to connect events from the past to things that are happening today. This helps students to see that we can all benefit from and learn from the past. It helps events from the past feel less distant and foreign.
  • Integrating cultural understanding into curriculum: teach your students about different cultures and people. Highlight their unique traditions and customs. Include all parties when teaching about historical events. 
  • Invite students to teach: When appropriate, invite students to “show and tell” about their family’s culture or history. If you have a student with Italian ancestry, invite them to teach the class about some of their family’s traditions. Perhaps you have a student who has family ties to Ghana, Japan, or Brazil. Give them an opportunity to share about their culture.
  • Model good listening: when others are sharing about their culture or another culture, show your students what good listening looks like. This will help them to respect others’ values, beliefs, and traditions.
  • Read books that have characters from all sorts of various backgrounds. This helps students to realize that situations, feelings, and life events are universal to all people and cultures.
  • Invite students to choose a country to learn more about. Have them share their findings with the class, and encourage them to involve the class in some aspect of what they’ve learned– learn a dance, try food from that place, or even learn some words from the language spoken by the people of that country.
  • Invite guest speakers to come into your classroom. Perhaps you have a Native American student whose father does hoop dancing that would be willing to come show students some dances. When teaching about ancient Egypt, invite a historian to come in and show artifacts. If you are learning about different kinds of art from around the world, invite an artist to come in and demonstrate one of the types of art you’ve learned about.
  • If you have a student who is from another country, take time to help the rest of the class understand more about that student’s country. Invite the student to share more about their culture.

However you choose to integrate it, culturally diverse instruction benefits all students. Cross cultural understanding can help to bring people together and can help students see that much of the human experience is universal. Perhaps the most important lesson of cross-cultural education is that all people matter, all cultures are important, all stories need to be shared, and all voices deserve to be heard.

Celebrating Differences

Have you ever been faced with a situation where your child loudly points out someone’s differences? The way we respond in situations like that can determine and change how our children perceive differences. If we respond with disgust, that is how our children will see differences. If, however, we respond with love, compassion, and kindness, our children will pick up on that and will learn to show empathy and love to those differently abled than them. 

It is so important— even crucial— to teach our children and students to view differences as a beautiful thing rather than something that sets them apart. Teaching inclusion is vital to raising a generation of kids who love and encourage people of all abilities. 

Sometimes it can be difficult to explain differences to kids in a way that makes sense to them. Thankfully, there are some incredible children’s books out there that do a beautiful job of teaching this. Here are a few that I found at my local library that were well written and that I feel do a good job of teaching the importance of inclusion.

Benji, the Bad Day, and Me by Sally J. Pla, Illustrated by Ken Min

Sammy is having the worst day ever. He comes home from school, feeling defeated and upset. But instead of being met with sympathy and kindness, his mother shushes him and tells him he needs to be quiet because his brother, Benji, had bad day and needed quiet. Sammy’s day continues to get worse, and he feels like no one notices him. Benji saves the day when he helps Sammy feel safe and comforted by wrapping him in a blanket, which is Benji’s favorite way to calm down and feel safe. 

Benji has autism, and is easily overwhelmed with loud noises or other sensory input. When Sammy doesn’t think anyone notices him, he is surprised to see that his brother does see him and is able to help him the best way he knows how.

This story is a tender example of how connected brothers can be, and the differences don’t have to separate them.

You Are Enough: A Book About Inclusion by Margaret O’Hair, Illustrated by Sofia Cardoso

Full of darling illustrations, this book celebrates the differences in each child. It shows that all people are enough, regardless of looks, abilities, race, etc. The story is inspired by Sofia Sanchez, a girl with Down syndrome who has embraced her differences and can be seen on TV, in ads, and on other media outlets. 

This books encourages all children to look in the mirror and celebrate what they see, and that they are enough, just as they are! 

When Charley Met Emma by Amy Webb, Illustrated by Merrilee Liddiard

Charley’s mom has always taught him that “Different isn’t weird, sad, bad, or strange. Different is different. And different is ok!” Charley and his mom go to the park and while there, they see a girl in a wheelchair with limb differences. For a moment, Charley forgets that different is okay, and loudly asks why the girl looks so weird. Rather than shaming, his mom uses the moment to remind and teach, encouraging Charley to go talk to the girl. 

He does, and discovers that her name is Emma, and that she likes to do all the same things Charley likes to do. Together, they play and have fun, and easily become friends. 

This book is a great reminder that ability isn’t always determined by what our bodies look like. Kids of all abilities and looks are able to have fun and be kids— because different is ok!

Different: A Great Thing to Be! By Heather Avis, Illustrated by Sarah Mensinga

Macy is a girl who is different than other kids around her. Sometimes she feels hurt by the comments and looks other kids give her. Rather than letting it hold her back, she embraces her differences and celebrates who she is. She finds ways to show other kids that while she is different, she is still a kid who can love, laugh, play, and be a friend.

Oona and the Shark by Kelly DiPucchio, Illustrated by Raissa Figueroa

Oona is a mermaid who likes all the things mermaids usually do. She loves to collect things, build inventions, and isn’t afraid of noise. One day she meets a shark who doesn’t seem to like all the things Oona likes. She is determined to make him like her things, inventions, and noise. With every attempt, she finds that the shark pulls further away. In one last attempt to win him over, she decides to throw a party. When shark doesn’t come, she retreats to the ocean floor to sit in quiet for a minute. There, she sees sea glass and has an idea. Using her brilliant mind, she creates a quiet sea glass sorting machine. When she presents it to shark, she is pleased to find that he likes it very much. She realizes that not everyone is the same, and that differences are okay.

The illustrations in this book are so beautiful, and the story is captivating!

We’re All Wonders by R.J. Palacio

Inspired by the novel Wonder, this children’s book follows Auggie, a child who was born with severe facial differences. Auggie takes readers on a journey of how people react to him, how he feels, and how he copes with the pointing fingers and mean words. The book ends with reminding readers that everyone is a wonder in their own way, and to “look with kindness and you will always find wonder.” 

Including all people, regardless of ability, appearance, or diagnosis is a vital thing for kids to learn. Many children are naturally inclusive. When adults display kindness, inclusion, and empathy, we encourage those around us to do the same. I encourage you to take a minute and help your children understand the importance of treating everyone with dignity and respect.