Today is Veterans Day in the United States. It’s a day we pause to honor and pay tribute to the brave men and women who have so diligently served our country and sacrificed so much for the citizens of our nation. Because I have family members who have served in the military, and a husband who works with veterans suffering from service connected disabilities, I understand the levity of this day, and have always done my best to think about and honor military members, past and present.
We can do our part to honor service members by talking about them, their bravery, and their service. Were it not for our brave service men and women, we would not be able to enjoy the freedoms we enjoy. Our lives would be much different than they are. In order to ensure that our military continues to receive the honor and thanks they deserve, we must teach our children and our students to respect and honor this day.
This can look like many different things, but all are appreciated by those being honored. Some ideas include:
Writing thank you letters to soldiers who are currently deployed
Writing thank you letters to veterans who are no longer actively serving
Create a video montage with students expressing their gratitude
Visiting with retired veterans and listening to their stories
Schools can hold an assembly to show pictures of, share memories of, and even hear from service members
Talking to our students about the profound impact that members of our military have made
Every year, I would have my students take some time to make a card or write a letter that would be sent to a soldier currently deployed. It always amazed me how much thought they would put into the words they wrote. There were even a few years we got some letters back, and it made the students so happy! There are many organizations who will collect letters and send them for you— a simple Google search will usually guide you in the right direction.
Not every student fully understood the magnitude of what soldiers do for us. Others, however, did, as they had a parent actively serving in the military. But regardless of their depth of understanding, they did know that soldier are important and that they ought to be honored and remembered, and that’s a lesson I hope they have carried with them as they have grown into adulthood.
If you’ve been in the classroom for any length of time, you have likely witnessed first hand just how mean and destructive bullies can be. It’s a problem that seems to have existed for as long as humans have been around, and it doesn’t seem to be going away anytime soon. In fact, it’s becoming more prominent with social media being so accessible. Students need to understand that bullying is never ok and is never the answer. The repercussions of being the target of a bully are long lasting and can be quite detrimental to a person’s health, confidence, and self image.
As teachers, it is crucial that if we see something, we say something, and that we teach our students to do the same. We need to teach our students what bullying is, what it can look like, how it feels to be the victim, and how to address it when/if we see it happening. I found a few picture books that did a great job of teaching these concepts— take a look!
Giraffe is Left Out written by Sue Craves, illustrated by Trevor Dunton
Giraffe, Little Lion, and Monkey are all friends. When Leopard moves into their class, Giraffe is not excited. He does not want to let Leopard join their friend group, and purposely excludes Leopard from any and all activities. Leopard is sad and feels left out. When it comes time to pass out invitations to his birthday party, Leopard gives one to everyone else, but doesn’t give one to Giraffe. Now Giraffe is the one who feels left out. Soon, he begins to understand just how mean it is to leave people out, and he learns that Leopard is actually a really good friend. Giraffe mends his ways and becomes a friend to Leopard in the end.
I liked how this book showed that excluding people is a form of bullying, and that it can be hurtful to others.
Billy Bully by Alvaro & Ana Galan, illustrated by Steve Simpson
When Billy Bully comes to the playground to play with the other kids, he takes over and makes the fun go away. He takes toys, cuts in line, pushes, breaks others’ things, tricks people, and won’t take turns. No one wants to play with him. With every mean thing he does, another kid leaves the playground. Soon, he is left with no one to play with, and he starts to realize that the things he was doing weren’t nice. One by one, he goes to his friends and apologizes and makes up for the things he had done. Soon, all the kids have come back to play together.
The illustrations in this book are so cute, and the story is easy to follow. There is also a counting element as Bully’s friends leave and come back one by one. I loved how it depicted several ways that someone can be a bully to help kids understand that bullying can take on many forms.
Eddie the Bully written and illustrated by Henry Cole
Eddie is mean, mean, mean. He says unkind things about his friends, teases them, ruins their art projects, and more. No one likes to play with him. He’s always picked last for teams, left out of the fun, and ignored. When Carla, a new girl, moves into their class, she is assigned to sit right next to Eddie. Everyone expects Eddie to say and do mean things to her, but before he has the chance, Carla compliments Eddie on his sweater and tells him that everyone must want to be his friend! Eddie is unsure what to say to this, because he knows that it isn’t true. Carla asks Eddie to help her make new friends, and Eddie agrees. He quickly learns that it feels good to be nice, so he changes his ways and starts over, this time, being a friend to everyone.
Similar to Billy Bully, this story shows different ways that bullying can happen, helping kids to understand that bullying isn’t just one thing.
Bullies Never Win by Margery Cuyler, illustrated by Arthur Howard
Jessica is a first grader who worries about a lot of things, one of which is Brenda, a girl at school who likes to bully and be mean. Brenda finds a way to make fun of everything Jessica does, so Jessica slowly stops doing all the things she loves to do. Jessica finally has had enough and breaks down crying to her mom. Her mom suggests that she stand up for herself or tell their teacher. Jessica is worried about what she will do or say to Brenda to make her stop being a bully. The next day at lunch, Brenda continues to tease and say mean things. Jessica has had enough, and stands up and tells Brenda that, “… bullies never win!” Brenda is embarrassed and doesn’t say anything else to Jessica. That night, Jessica feels proud of herself for standing up to Brenda.
I loved how this story showed how to stand up to a bully. It was an empowering story!
Bully written and illustrated by Jennifer Sattler
Bully is a bull frog, and he wants all the lily pads on the pond all for himself. He won’t let any other pond friends eat them, smell them, or look at them. Soon, he has chased everyone away and is all alone. There is only one flower left, and he wants it just for himself, so he sits on it to protect it. A bee comes up to him and tries to save the flower by reminding Bully that he’s sitting on it. Bully is mean and asks the bee what he’s going to do about it. The bee has an idea, and buzzes away to gather his friends. Together they reclaim the pond and chase Bully away. The lilies begin to grow again, and the pond is back to its thriving self. Bully moves to a new pond, but is sad to see that it’s just a pond of mud, and he is all alone. Still, all he cares about is that the pond is all his.
This story showed that it can be powerful to stand up to a bully as a group— strength in numbers.
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Bullying is never the answer, and students need to know that. These books do a great job of teaching that and showing that bullying can take on many forms. Bullying is a problem that many kids will face, either directly or indirectly, and it’s important that students be equipped with the tools they need to stand up to bullies and speak up when they see it happening. We may not be able to completely eradicate bullying from our schools, but we can certainly make a difference by teaching our students to respect and watch out for one another.
If you’ve been a teacher long enough, and especially if you teach or have taught upper elementary or secondary students, you’ve likely had to deal with plagiarism in your classroom. If you haven’t, count yourself lucky! It’s a growing problem, especially in today’s world, where AI and other digital outlets are making it too easy to plagiarize, cheat, or put minimal effort into assignments. It’s really quite disheartening to see.
Plagiarism is, by definition, the act of using someone else’s work as your own without giving credit to the original author. There are many ways that a person can plagiarize, each just as dishonest and academically unethical as the next.
First, someone can use the entirety of another person’s work as their own. Essentially, the “new” author changes the by-line by substituting their own name, thus claiming the entire piece as their own work. Nothing else is changed, and the work is copied word-for-word.
Second, plagiarism can happen when someone takes pieces of someone else’s work and puts them into their own writing. This can often be referred to as “patchwork plagiarism”, as the “new” author pieces their paper together using patches and pieces of one or more already written pieces. This can even occur when a student attempts to paraphrase someone’s work, and maintains the same structure and only changes a couple of words.
Third, a student can plagiarize by pulling a sentence here and a sentence there from someone else’s work and not citing where the thought came from. This is likely the most common form of plagiarism, as students often don’t see a problem with “borrowing” a sentence or two every now and then in their own work. It is, however, academically dishonest, and is most definitely a form of plagiarism.
As a teacher, how do you combat this ever-increasing problem in today’s classrooms? One of the easiest ways to prevent it from happening is to teach students how to properly cite their sources. Because it is now easier than ever to copy and paste someone else’s work into their own, students absolutely must have a foundational knowledge of what plagiarism is, what it can look like, and what the consequences are for engaging in it. It’s also important to note that this sort of instruction is not the sole responsibility of the English/Language Arts teachers. Sure, they are likely the ones who encounter this problem the most, but they certainly aren’t the only ones who do. Anytime you are assigning students to write anything— research papers, narratives, poetry, and so on, you must initially define what plagiarism is and clearly set up your expectations and the consequences for failing to abide by those expectations. I found it very helpful to have a note about plagiarism on the actual assignment paper that I handed out.
Before turning students loose to write their papers, make sure they have an understanding of how to properly cite the sources they use in their writing. Be sure to have resources readily available for their reference should they have questions about proper citation formats. Read through their rough drafts to check for any potential problems or plagiarism so that it can be fixed before the final draft is due.
Should you discover that a student has plagiarized, be sure to follow through on the consequences you set at the beginning of the assignment. I remember assigning my 8th grade accelerated class to write their own book of poetry, with each poem following a specific structure or rhyme scheme. I outlined each kind of poem on the instruction sheet, and made sure to include a note at the bottom that all work was to be 100% their own, and that failure to do so would result in a “0” grade for the entire project. As I was reading through poems, I came to one student’s assignment, and came across a poem that sounded a little too advanced for 8th grade (even for an accelerated class). A quick Google search produced a whole list of sites containing the poem that had been submitted by this student. The poem matched, word for word. My heart sunk, as I knew that I would have to follow through with my previously set consequence. This student was a straight-A student, who had never cheated, and had always turned in quality, original work. That same night was Parent-Teacher Conferences, and let me tell you— it was not an easy conversation to have with the student and her father. She was devastated and claimed she had misunderstood that all work had to be original, but because I had taken the time to write very specific instructions on the assignment sheet, I had proof that my instructions were clear. It was a hard lesson for her to learn, and that “0” grade decently impacted her final grade for the term. Even though it was a hard thing for me to follow through with, I knew I had to, because I knew that if she had gotten away with it, she wouldn’t have learned the lesson, and I would have hated for her to learn that lesson in college or a high school course where the consequence would have been much more serious.
Plagiarism is one of those things that is hard to deal with as a teacher. It is a form of cheating, and should not be tolerated. Students should know what it is, how to avoid it, and what the consequences are for engaging in it. Like I said previously, it’s better for students to learn about this kind of thing earlier, rather than when the consequences for dishonesty are much more severe.
So now I want to know— how have you handled it when you have come across plagiarism in your classroom?
We had Parent-Teacher Conferences for my kids last night, and I was so excited to go. I love hearing updates from teachers, and my kids love to show me where their desk is, their cubby, and take me to see their work that is hanging in the hall. With five kids all at the same school, those nights can get pretty long, but they are worth it.
I enjoy hearing how they are doing academically; it’s fun to see beginning of year test scores compared to present scores— there is almost always improvement. It’s encouraging to see the forward leaps they make as they learn. I also really enjoy hearing how my children can improve. If there is an area (or multiple) that need attention, I like to know so that I can give my full support to my child as well as to their teacher.
Though I do enjoy hearing about the academic progress that is being made, I love it even more when I get a report from a teacher telling me that my child is helpful, kind, friendly, and respectful to everyone, adults and kids alike. Knowing that my child is being a good human means so much to me. We try so hard at home to teach our children to be kind, to include, and to respect others. We do our best to teach them good manners and what a good friend looks like. When I send them to school each morning, I just hope that what they have been taught sticks with them, and it is so reassuring to hear that they indeed did hear us and remembered!
I think so often parents worry about their children getting good grades, especially in upper grades. There seems to be so much pressure on kids today to be the best in their class, get the highest score on the test, or that any grade below a B is unacceptable. Obviously, parents aren’t out there wanting their kids to fail, but I think there could be more flexibility when it comes to expectations. That’s not to say for parents to just let go and stop encouraging their kids, because there is definitely value in pushing your kids to do and be their best. But when it becomes all about grades, I think we’ve missed the mark.
I was always a good student, and my grades were usually pretty good. But I can tell you that not a single person in my adult life has cared what grade I got in my high school math class. No one has asked if I scored 100% on the AP US History test I took as a junior. It simply doesn’t matter anymore. But what does matter is that I am a kind person, who includes others, is friendly, and listens to people.
When it comes down to it, the way we treat others says a whole lot more about who we are as people than the grades we pulled in school. Sure, good grades can indicate that someone is a hard, determined worker, and good grades can get you into a college where you can earn a degree and work toward making a career for yourself. Having a job allows you to have money to pay your bills and put food on the table. But it’s important to remember that being kind is good, too.
So as your children (and your students) grow and learn, be sure to teach them more than just academics; teach them to be kind, patient, respectful, and inclusive. Because one day, it’s the way they are that will truly take them places in this life.
Where were you on that fateful day In September 2001? Were you busy at work or learning at school Or had your day just barely begun?
Did you watch it unfold As it aired on TV? Was your heart uncertain and scared? Did you ask yourself, “How can this be?”
The world stood still and everyone watched; We sat in disbelief and in shock. How could there be such evil? Our faith and trust they did rock.
Shaken and battered, Afraid and unsure, Forward we moved, Knowing unity could cure.
People all over stepped in and stepped up. Amidst all the sadness, the terror, and pain, Selfless heroes helped others, Not seeking any personal gain.
While some ran away to escape the debris, Others ran in, one objective in mind: To help who they could whatever the cost, And do their best to save lives.
As the dust settled down, And we began to restore, As a country we came together, Unified and changed evermore.
As those who did witness The events of that day, We must never forget And must teach our children to do the same.
Teach them to love, to be kind, and uplift, Show them how to lead with kindness and grace. Ensure that they know that hate never wins, That love conquers all, and everyone has a place.
Teach them to care, to listen, and help. To look out for others, to lend a hand when they’re called. Above all else, let them never forget: United we stand, divided we fall.
-Logan Nielsen, 2025
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As today marks 24 years since the tragic events of September 11, 2001 took place, may we all take a moment to reflect on that day and the people whose lives were forever changed because of those events. May we teach our students and our children about this day, just like our parents and teachers taught us about previous wars and history-making/changing events. Let us encourage all we come in contact with to be a little kinder, a little more gentle, and a little more helpful. May we spread kindness and love whenever we can, and may we never forget this day.
We can all agree that there are pros and cons to giving kids homework, and that it really should only be given if it’s meaningful. Reading, for example, is homework I’m never mad about. Building reading skills is crucial for life long success, and the more kids do it, the better they will be at it. Sending home a coloring page, however, doesn’t seem as meaningful to me. Fun? Sure. But a good use of precious after-school time? Not so much.
I saw a social media post the other day that got me thinking about things that aren’t assigned as homework, but maybe should be. Skills that are important for every day life, people skills, and problem solving skills. Grading them would be subjective, and participation and effort would matter more than the outcome, but what is learned/gained would set kids up for long term success beyond the walls of the classroom.
How would something like this be assigned and evaluated? I suppose it depends on the skill being practiced. Perhaps teachers can create a “menu” of possible skills for students to choose from. Maybe some teachers would want to assign everyone in the class the same task to work on. Some might even want to create “task groups” where small groups of students are all given a certain task and can help each other and cheer each other on. Evaluation might look like parents signing a log, pictures, written reflection, or some other tangible or observable result of the student’s practice.
What kinds of things would be assigned? I think this depends on your students’ needs and situations. Obviously, a high school teacher is going to assign some things that are geared more toward older kids, such as learning to balance a bank account, whereas a kindergarten teacher might assign something like learning to tie shoes.
Here’s a few ideas to get you started:
Learning to balance a bank account
Learning to make a phone call and set an appointment or order food— not everything has to be done through an app
Going to the store to make a purchase— selecting your items, conversing with a cashier, and sticking to a budget are great skills
Cooking a simple meal (with adult supervision)
Spending time outside— fresh air does wonders for both the body and mind
Doing a puzzle or playing a board game with at least one other person— teamwork, cooperation, and good sportsmanship are essential
Sitting down to eat a meal as a family— a great chance to have good conversations
Helping with household chores— those skills are needed!
Helping people
Learning how to write a letter, address an envelope, and send it in the mail
Go to the library, get a library card, and check out some books
Free play— giving kids unstructured play time is SO important for their imaginations
If possible, learning how to maintain a yard
Learning how to give and receive compliments
When it’s an appropriate age, learning to ask someone out on a date, face-to-face
Finding a good sleep routine
Screen-free time— it’s good for so many reasons
Spending time at a retirement or assisted living facility— the older generation can teach us so much
Meditation
Some might argue that parents should be incorporating these skills into their family’s routines and lives, but not all family situations allow for things like this, and unfortunately, not all parents are supportive and involved in their children’s lives.
And yes, teachers already do so much, using their days to teach core subjects. But I don’t know of a single teacher that wouldn’t mind devoting at least a little bit of time to helping their students build skills that will set them up for life long success.
Regardless of where you stand regarding these things being assigned as homework, I’m sure we can all agree that the rising generation needs support, guidance, and encouragement as they navigate life and learn essential skills.
I typically only have one of my kids home with me each afternoon, but yesterday my kindergartner was home sick. My preschooler was excited to have a buddy at home with her, and insisted they play with our magnetic tiles. I got them out of the closet and expected them to start building and creating with them. Instead of doing that, I was surprised to see that they had begun to sort the tiles by size, shape, and color. My teacher heart leaped as I watched them unintentionally engage themselves in a pre-math activity. Learning without them knowing it’s learning? Yes, please!
These kinds of activities are a win-win for both kids and teachers (or parents). The kids are going about the task, having fun playing, all the while learning or practicing skills or knowledge they have learned. Oftentimes as teachers, we purposely set up these kinds of activities for our students. We try to plan and execute fun, engaging ways to teach our content. We intentionally create opportunities for fun in our classrooms— sometimes students can hardly believe that they are actually having a fun time at school!
Sometimes these kinds of activities and learning opportunities happen naturally, without us even trying, such as what happened with my kids and their magnetic tiles. These unintentional lessons can be a gateway to further learning as kids experiment with methods, concepts, and ideas. They can lead to increased problem solving, hypothesis forming, and further investigation.
If we can get students to become active participants in their learning, they are more likely to remember what is being taught. Connecting an experience to a concept allows for the brain to create a new synapse or neural pathway. It’s amazing! Allowing the brain to work cooperatively with the hands, eyes, ears, and other senses heightens the learning experience and makes it more memorable.
When we allow kids to push the limits of learning on their own, amazing things happen. If we let go of some of the control over an activity or task, oftentimes students will take control and learn more than we had planned for— which is never a bad thing! It’s hard sometimes to let go and allow students to explore, but the reward can be great if we do.
Giving students the opportunity to take initiative with what they are learning lends itself to students becoming more engaged and interested in the learning process. It’s especially amazing if they get to a point where they forget or don’t even realize that they are learning or doing school work. Having fun and learning? A golden combination, for sure!
